Idleness is the key of beggary, and the root of all evil.
懒惰是行乞的敲门砖,是万恶的根源。
Second, if your friends have problems, do not give advice. Ask questions instead, such as What do yo want? How do you feel about it? What are you afraid might happen? They will be able to find answers to any problems themselves, with your support. They